If I expected love

Wednesday night found 2 woman having plenty of drinks after a relaxing massage and some tapas at La Bodega in Bangsar. We had a mixture of everything, sangria, this great new drink Kwai Fei - lychee martini, champagne cocktails, French 95 and too many Bellinis.

Yes we were tipsy, ahem a little more than tipsy actually, we were laughing out loud, enjoying ourselves and talking about relationships.

“Don’t you think its sad when some people wont ever get to experience for once, at least, in their life, the greatest romance of all, you know with all the fireworks and passion you can think of just like in the movies?!? Some woman just get too paranoid when age creeps up on them and they just marry whoever that comes along when they are most vulnerable, but only to separate a few years later.”

That is all sad but true. Come to think of it, I think most people won’t even get to feel love, warmth and compassion let alone experience the greatest romance in their life. To be able to say “I don’t care if a bomb falls down on us today, at least we have loved before” is something some can only dream about but never lived.

In this day and time, has romance and love gotten outdated that it is not needed in a relationship? A friend of mine just told me that she went out on a date with this a guy she met on her blog. It went well and at the end of it, the guy just asked her if she could possibly be his Fuck Buddy (FB)!!?! This is proposed by a 27 year old, cute, tall and handsome designer. What is wrong with these people?

Don’t people date anymore?

I do know all men’s objective (yeah whether you like it or not and beg to differ) ultimately is to get into your pants/skirt/underneath your g-string. But asking someone to be a FB on a first date just shocks your believes to the core. Should I just stop dating and just start fucking?

We didn’t manage to drive home after the 6^th round of drinks so we stayed on till the shop closed. That’s when KS came over and talked to us. We didn’t pay much attention to the very persistent bald engineer director who shoved us his name card, instead we continued on and ordered another Bellinis.

Later, 2 drunk ladies stumbled to the mamak stall for a hot drink to clear the head before we head home. S ordered Milo and chicken to feed the cats. She is such an animal lover, so much so she opened her own shelter for cats and dogs. If you fancy a new companion, (and no, I dont mean fuck buddies) please let me know. Although I can’t hook you up with a real mate, I can definitely hook you up with men’s best friend.